Often people say to me "You just won't understand."
"You're way too old." or "Way too young." or "YOU are NOT in MY SHOES!"

I don't know why some people feel they suffer unique pain. As if they are the only ones who've lost or ceased to gain.

I don't know why they hide their pain and clutch it ever tighter. It seems to me that all should know - a burden shared gets lighter.

Why some folks begin to think the pain in their heart is all their own, to keep and hoard; they set themselves apart.

They keep their eyes from meeting mine - afraid I might see their hurt. And even if we stop and speak, their words are often curt.

I know the ways of hurt: My heart's been crushed before. Friends have betrayed - I've lost at love - Despair's knocked at my door.

And I Remember - Thoughts gone wild - And crying late at night. Not having strength to care at all - Much less the strength to fight.

But, someone special came to me - And when my trials were told. I realized that with their tears - They'd eased my heavy load.

And so, I learned - that Pain - like Love - Is bearable if shared. I don't know what I would have done without that friend who cared.

My trials did not vanish fast - In fact the time was long. But sharing gave me breathing space until I could grow strong.

Strong enough to laugh again and even start to smile - And though it seemed it could not help - It eased my pain awhile.

So, if you think that you can't share cause I won't understand. At least just give me half a chance to lend a helping hand.

For I know that you're hurting and I know a place to start. Perhaps if you could realize - Your pain burns in my heart.

I know I cannot make your trials and troubles go away. But maybe I can help a bit to get you through today.

And maybe by tomorrow you wont need help anymore. But if you should - Don't be ashamed - For that's what friends are for.

And after all is said and done - The trials ceased - You're whole!

Perhaps you'll know just what to do to help another soul - Who's being crushed by hurt and pain - be it man or woman.